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Welcome to the next profile in our Work Styles series! In each profile, we highlight one person's untraditional workday. You'll get an inside look at alternatives to the traditional 9-5, Monday-Friday schedule (and maybe pick up something new to try).
Today, we're featuring the amazing Steph Smith! Steph is the Director of Marketing at HubSpot and juggles multiple endeavors on the side, including her podcast, book, and blog. She's been working remotely for 5+ years and is an experienced digital nomad who has explored 50+ countries.
In this profile, we get an inside look at her approach to juggling multiple roles, how she went from finding remote work freedom confusing to embracing the potential, and how she's even more productive since saying goodbye to the traditional 9-5 workday. Let's dive in!
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"Honestly, every single day looks different. Some days I wake up at 7AM and others I wake up at 10AM. Some days are filled with calls (hopefully not too often), while others I’ve completely time blocked. Some days are spent strategizing, while others are spent heads down getting sh** done.
This has to do with my job being pretty broad (leading a digital product), my varied interests and projects, and the fact that I’ve never been much of a regimented person -- even in university, I struggled to go to lectures because they didn’t adhere to when and how I learned best.
Although each day looks different, my weeks have some elements of consistency, including what I consider to be a few 80/20 things that have made my days better. The full list is covered in my course, Doing Time Right, which covers my entire productivity philosophy: Eliminate, Automate, Delegate, Iterate.
"Even though I had only worked a 'desk job' for a year prior, the first few months of working completely remotely were surprisingly difficult.
I distinctly remember feeling this sense of confusion.
I was so used to having everything pre-defined for me that freedom was confusing. My slate was wiped clean, turning my schedule from something with rigid expectations, instructions, and hours to something considerably more ambiguous.
It took me a while to really get my head around all of this since every experience prior had taught me that this was not the way the world worked. To put it bluntly, I had never been given this level of trust and autonomy, and at first, I wasn’t prepared for it.
In particular, there was no one to set boundaries for me and it took me somewhere between 6-12 months to really design a work environment that was optimal. In other words, it really was a job to learn to become more effective, which meant isolating how to elevate my strengths and limit my weaknesses. Some people end up opting out of that pursuit and prefer to be told how to work. Although it’s an upfront investment, it has paid dividends for years to come.
The results of this testing include the examples in my prior answer. But in order to get to those answers, I needed to collect information.
This information ranged from what times of day I was most productive to whether I preferred to work from a cafe or from my bed. It also included tracking: something I started to take more seriously in 2018 when I learned to code. I sometimes refer to that year as my 'year of sponge', because that’s when I got serious about tracking daily progress towards my goals.
This was a fundamental shift for me because KPIs no longer were just for work -- they were for my personal life too.
Through that data, I was able to get an accurate reflection of how I worked, instead of just a perception through hindsight. Some people have an adverse reaction to this level of tracking, but I think that during the early stages of remote work, it gave me the feedback mechanisms I needed.
Finally, this attention towards how I was spending my time uncovered a clear distinction between 'busyness' and 'productivity' which I label as meta and absolute tasks, which I describe below through an excerpt from an article of mine. As I continue to evolve my schedule, I’m constantly asking the question, 'How can I make room for more absolute tasks?'
"I’d like to flip this question on its head and encourage people to ask the question, 'Why do I feel the need to work the standard 9-5 schedule?'
I worked the standard 9-5 for around a year, commuting ~2 hours round trip daily. Throughout that entire period, I couldn’t understand why work needed to operate that way, because just as I do today, 99% of my work was done through the Internet.
The more I peeled back the layers, the more I realized that it was more tradition than optimization.
It’s pretty crazy when you stop to think about it:
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When I realized that the 40HWW was mostly a remnant of the past, it was pretty easy for me to choose an alternative. And since then, it’s been clear that I will never return.
There are so many traditions that exist all around us. Many of them exist for a reason, but in their passing from generation to generation, people forget to question them and whether their original impetus still makes sense.
Whether it’s the 40HWW, 3 meals a day, or marriage -- I would encourage people to learn about the traditions that they’ve so readily accepted, not because they’re terrible things, but so that they can understand whether it’s still applicable today or whether they can create something better."
"Saying no. I’ve found that learning to say no is a life-long lesson that forever keeps kicking me in the butt.
And its relevance grows the more control you have over your time; increased freedom simultaneously allows you to do more, but can also enable you to stretch yourself too thin.
It’s taken time for me to internalize that time is truly zero sum and that I need to start treating it as such. That means that I can’t continue to do all of the things that are 'nice to have', but instead need to focus on the few things that are essential.
I started from a place of little opportunity and a lot of time. Over time, that inverted, and I have much less time than opportunities available, but I have needed to retrain my brain to operate this way."
"Remote work (or similarly, autonomy or a flexible schedule) is not an 'end goal'.
Many people see the glamorized version of remote work and hope that it will solve their problems. But remote work is just an enabler… just an extension of normal work. It gives you more autonomy to design your life, but that still means that you need to actively do that. And it certainly will not bring you happiness on its own. You still need to invest in your skills, relationships, and goals because they will not develop without effort. Just like any challenge, you’ll be rewarded accordingly.
If you choose to work flexibly, expect challenges and roadblocks because they’re a part of life, remote or otherwise. And as you embark on this journey, remember not to sacrifice your integrity or personal goals. For example, don’t take a remote job that you hate, just because it’s more flexible. You still have to spend ~⅓ of your life there!
One universal downside of remote work is the social aspect that it can bring (or not bring).
Offices allow coworkers to experience hundreds of micro-interactions each day. Remote communication tends to be more transactional and therefore requires even more investment.
If relationships are built off of quality time, the answer is not necessarily more calls -- it’s more genuine interaction -- quality time. Interaction could be an office gym challenge. It could be a weekly hangout with no business talk. It could be quarterly retreats.
What I see so many companies do is treat every call the same: the first fraction allocated to 'small talk' and the rest to 'business'. Instead of diluting every call, set aside specific time for bonding. For example, instead of having 20 hours of mediocre calls through the week, most companies could reduce that to 5 hours (or less) of highly productive calls and 1-2 hours of calls dedicated to bonding, which from my experience, is a better formula for relationship building.
I will end this segment by bringing back the idea of narratives. We’ve grown to think that our coworkers should be some of our closest friends and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But it’s also important to remember that with a new way of work, you can have healthy work relationships and even healthier relationships with people physically around you. This is partially why pandemic remote work was so difficult -- you didn’t have the physical outlets for connection available."
"Remote work is whatever you want it to be. It wipes your slate clean, allowing you to build your own approach to work. In the same way that we don’t need to work 9-5 M-F, you don’t need to get up and travel the world, just because you may now have access to it.
In other words, having autonomy is not about having no rules, but ridding yourself of the rules forced upon you and developing your own set. Sometimes those rules end up quite similar to where you started. Sometimes they’re entirely new."
Big thank you to Steph Smith for giving us an inside look at her workday schedule!
Highly recommend checking out her podcast, the Shit You Don't Learn in School, if you're interested in learning more about remote work and getting more out of life (especially this episode on narratives: Does Marriage, Retirement, or the 40-Hour Work Week Still Make Sense?).
If you're interested in maximizing your time, check out her course, Doing Time Right. Also, follow her on Twitter or her blog, where she frequently writes about remote work.
I'd love to hear from you! What did you find interesting about Steph's workday? What could you potentially try out yourself?
Feel free to reply to this message or DM me on Twitter @mar15sa.
I truly appreciate you taking the time to read this. Hope you have a lovely day!
Marissa
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