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As many people have transitioned to remote work this year, there are certain common struggles that come up over and over: "I love remote work, but I'm having trouble with boundaries between my work and personal life. I used to use my commute to relax, now I can't turn my brain off."
Let's talk about this. Starting with: you don't need a commute, you need a ritual.
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What is a commute? It’s a transition (chosen for you) that provides distinction between your work and home life, and usually ends up being both time-consuming and annoying.
What is a ritual? A transition (you choose) that provides distinction between your work and home life, especially personalized to what is best for you.
The average commute time is around 30 minutes each way. That means the average person has an extra 5 hours per week when they work from home. It’s easy to automatically put this time towards working more, but what if you took advantage of the extra time instead?
You can create your own version of a commute via a ritual, with all the benefits of providing much-needed boundaries and turning off your brain, without the stressful downsides of traffic, dealing with public transportation, or expense.
Personally, I stack habits like reading, journaling, skincare, and more to create an intentional start and end to my day. A friend of mine likes to cook deliciously intricate home-cooked breakfasts and dinners as his “commute”.
Also, don’t feel the need to make your morning/evening ritual between work and time off be the same (like it was with your commute). Remember last week’s topic, our default way of doing things may no longer serve us as we switch to new ways of work. Question the default in order to improve your quality of life.
Just because you don’t have a formal commute decided on for you, doesn’t mean you can’t have a transition ritual to help you separate between your work and personal time. By being intentional with your newly added time, you can stop overworking yourself, and spend more time doing what you love. What would your commute reimagined look like?
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The average commute time is around 30 minutes each way. Now that you're working remotely, consider where you've been putting that extra time and how you could be spending it.
You can create your own version of a commute via a ritual, with all the benefits of providing much-needed boundaries and turning off your brain, without the stressful downsides of traffic, dealing with public transportation, or expense.
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"Knowledge work does not yet have its Henry Ford, but workflow innovations
with impact on the same scale as the assembly lines are inevitable." ​
- A World Without Email by Cal Newport​
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Today's topic is an expansion on one of the 10 questions I shared to help you consider how to use remote work to upgrade your quality of life. Check out the full list here.
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Marissa
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