Welcome to the very first issue of Remotely Interesting!
Too often when we talk about the future of work, we focus on the “how” we’ll work. However, none of the new ways of work will matter if we don’t also update how we live. So, that’s what I want to kick-off our first newsletter discussing. Specifically:
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It’s 2015. For months after switching to remote work, I continued to use an alarm. I’m not a morning person, and being jolted awake immediately always left me cranky. Then one day, I woke up and finally decided to ask, “Why?”. There was no traffic to beat or excessive getting ready routines. In fact, I was starting my work earlier than I needed to because I had no idea what to do with the extra time.
Standard wake up methods involve being forced awake with a blaring alarm. There is no regard to what stage of the sleep cycle you're in. Waking up to a heart attack means that the first feeling we’re starting our day with is stress. This doesn't set the right tone when you want to be focused, productive, and agreeable on morning calls. Beyond that, many of us are instantly reaching for the snooze button, so we’re also starting the day with a withdrawal from our self discipline account.
Ultimately, the only reason why I used an alarm clock was to make sure I got up at a certain time every day. But was this the best and only option to achieve this goal? Turns out, no. I'm able to achieve this through waking up naturally while getting rid of all the downsides.
Flash forward to now, I haven’t used an alarm clock to wake up in years. I wake up naturally every day around 6:30am. Instead of starting my day in a panic, I wake up slowly and naturally. Shockingly, a regular calm, rested wake up experience led me to switch from being a lifelong night owl to a morning person. I start my day feeling ready and this has a huge impact on the quality of my work.
As we switch to new ways of work, our default routines no longer serve us. How we wake up is just one example of this.
Look at your default routines and call out what is working and not working about them. Recognize that these habits are probably deeply ingrained, and tiny changes will be your best course of action. Here are the steps I took to change how I woke up:
Remember: The point of this is not to say the only solution is waking up without an alarm clock, or this works for everyone. The point is to say that many of our current routines, are still tied to our old ways of work. As you shift into new work, remember to question whether those old ways of life still serve you in the best way.
Too often when we talk about the future of work, we focus on the “how” we’ll work. However, none of the new ways of work will matter if we don’t also update how we live.
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As we switch to new ways of work, our default routines no longer serve us. Remember to question whether your quality of life is being affected by default routines optimized for a world you no longer live in.
"We laugh at people who still use Windows 95, yet we still cling to opinions that we formed in 1995."
- Think Again by Adam Grant
In reference to a post about working asynchronously and having meetings down to less than 5% of my work week:
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I truly appreciate you taking the time to read this. Hope you have a lovely day!
Marissa
9-5, Monday-Friday, in-person office work are all relics of the past. Let's revolutionize how you live by changing how you work.
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